From One to Two: How to Prepare Your Toddler for a New Baby (North Austin Newborn Photography Tips)
Bringing home baby #2?
Congratulations, mama. Whether you’re still in the nesting phase or just weeks from delivery, you’re probably already wondering:
How do I help my toddler adjust to a new sibling?
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Adding a second baby to the family is joyful, yes—but it can also bring up big emotions, especially for your firstborn. As a North Austin newborn photographer (and mom of multiples myself), I’ve had the honor of walking with dozens of families through this transition—and watching toddlers step into their new role with love, pride, and curiosity.
Here’s what I’ve learned, plus practical action items you can start now to help your toddler feel prepared, empowered, and not forgotten.
1. Start Talking About the Baby—Early and Often
Even if your toddler doesn’t fully grasp what’s coming, normalize baby talk in your daily life. Use age-appropriate language to explain what babies do (cry, sleep, eat) and how things might change around the house.
Action Tip:
Use books like “I’m a Big Brother” or “I’m a Big Sister” to help your toddler visualize what’s coming. Let them feel baby kick or listen to heartbeat sounds if you have a Doppler or during appointments.
2. Give Them a “Big Sibling Job”
Toddlers love to feel helpful and important. Assigning them a role—like choosing baby’s outfit, bringing diapers, or “reading” a book to the baby—can foster connection instead of competition.
Action Tip:
Create a “Big Sibling Kit” with a mini baby doll, wipes, and bottle so they can practice caring for a baby too. You can even let them help “pack” baby’s hospital bag with small soft toys or outfits.
3. Practice Independent Play & Transitions
A newborn’s arrival often means mom is suddenly less available. Preparing your toddler now for some solo time or learning how to wait their turn can really help.
Action Tip:
Start practicing short bursts of solo play (“quiet time baskets” are great!) or ask family members to help with short drop-offs or meals so your toddler can get used to other caregivers.
4. Make Time for 1-on-1 Moments
Even after baby arrives, your toddler will still need your attention and affection—maybe even more than before. It’s okay if things aren’t perfectly balanced, but small intentional moments go a long way.
Action Tip:
Set a goal to spend 10 undistracted minutes a day with just your toddler—even if it’s cuddling while baby naps or reading a book while baby feeds.
5. Book a Newborn Photography Session That Includes Both Babies
One of the most powerful ways to help your toddler feel seen and included?
Let them be part of welcoming the baby.
As a North Austin newborn photographer, I offer newborn sessions that are just as much for big siblings as they are for baby. We keep it relaxed and toddler-paced, letting them gently hold, kiss, or even simply sit beside their new sibling—no pressure, just presence.
Photos like these:
Give your toddler a sense of pride (“I’m the big sibling now!”)
Offer a moment of calm together as a family
Become treasured keepsakes that both children will one day love looking back on
Bonus: Toddlers often behave better during sessions when they feel like they're part of the “team,” not left out of the spotlight.
You’ve Got This, Mama
Adding another child to your family may feel overwhelming, but this shift doesn’t have to be chaotic or rushed. With a little preparation and a lot of grace (for both you and your toddler), it can be a gentle, joyful unfolding.
And when you're in the thick of it—those early days of big emotions, baby snuggles, and double the love—you’ll be so glad you took the time to slow down and capture it all.
